Kestas made some comments that without context were supportive of genocide, and made some jokes on a women's appreciation day that were pointed out to me by a few moderators (male and female). After discussing in a discord chat with the entire mod and admin team, I confronted him on the forum about it. It escalated and he (accidentally by his claim) doxxed my personal email with my full name which I intentionally keep off the internet since Kestas, myself, and others have gotten death threats for modding the site. Where I live, doxxing a full name is illegal. When I deleted the thread to remove my information and emailed him calling him a fucking idiot, he panicked, removed me as an admin, then removed almost every mod as an admin to make sure none of them would help me delete the site???
When other admins and Zultar let him know they viewed his actions as problematic, he insisted he was right, he did nothing wrong, so every admin and co-owner resigned. Since that point he's been explaining to the women on the forum who are telling him that his jokes were sexist that they are wrong.
Again at the end of the day, it's just some internet drama and not a huge deal, but the online diplomacy community and webdip is something I spent 10+ years of my life helping with (even during the period Kestas says I wasn't). I put in hundreds of development hours (I calculated it once at my job's rate and it was over $90,000 USD) of free work into the site. Banned thousands of cheaters, and the thanks I got was Kestas telling me he was scared I would delete the site because I called him a fucking idiot for doxxing my personal information.
So I am personally done with the diplomacy community, and am a bit disappointed with his treatment of the site that I spent a decade keeping alive while he was gone/not interested.